Choose the level of support that fits this season of your family’s life.
Family Systems & Parent Coaching Plans
Family systems change best through steady practice, not one-off advice. These monthly plans are designed to give you enough support to try new patterns, reflect on what happens, and keep what works—without locking you into a rigid program.
Three Tiers
All plans are:
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Three-months at a time (we strongly recommend a 3-month run to see real movement and build inertia)
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Virtual-first (Zoom/phone + text support)
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Non-clinical and non-ABA
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Neurodiversity-affirming and systems-focused
Use this page to get a sense of the right tier for you, then connect with us to start a conversation.
1. Foundational Support
Light structure + steady guidance
Approx. 3 hours per month
Best for families who want a thoughtful outside perspective, some structure, and space to experiment—without a heavy weekly commitment.
What it can include (examples):
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2–3 Zoom or phone sessions per month (60–90 minutes each) focused mainly on parents
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Occasional child or teen check-ins if they’re interested and it makes sense
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Big-picture pattern mapping: where stress collects, what loops keep repeating
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Simple, low-risk experiments in routines, expectations, and communication
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Limited text/messaging support for brief questions and quick course corrections
This tier is ideal if you’re stable enough to function, but want things to feel calmer, clearer, and more predictable.
2. Deep Alignment
Most popular — weekly rhythm + real momentum
Approx. 6 hours per month
Best for families navigating higher stress, strong-willed patterns, ADHD-related overwhelm, or persistent conflict—and ready to make real, sustained changes.
What it can include (examples):
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Weekly Zoom/phone sessions (often 60–90 minutes) primarily with parents
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Optional separate time for child/teen to process, vent, or help design solutions
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Co-designed systems for mornings, evenings, transitions, chores, and schoolwork
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Support shifting from nagging / power struggles to calm leadership and clear agreements
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More generous text/messaging support for in-the-moment questions and check-ins
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Collaborative development of visuals, checklists, and structures that fit your family
This tier is designed to build stability & peace, executive-function & independence, and relational repair & accountability in a focused, but still humane way.
3. Comprehensive Stewardship
High-intensity support for complex situations
Approx. 10 hours per month
Best for families in a very intense season—multiple kids needing support, significant school or systems friction, or a pattern that feels like it’s taken over the household.
What it can include (examples):
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Multiple contacts per week (mix of Zoom, phone, and shorter check-ins)
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Parallel work with caregivers (co-parents, grandparents, or key adults) when appropriate
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Close support during sensitive transitions (school changes, new diagnoses, major life events)
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Detailed co-design of systems, scripts, and supports with rapid feedback loops
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Higher-access text / messaging support within agreed-upon hours
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Ongoing refinement as we see what the system actually does with each change
This tier offers intensive scaffolding while we stabilize the system and gradually taper to a lighter level of support when things are working more smoothly.
How the Hours Work
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Hours are counted across all work for your family: live sessions, brief calls, and substantive planning or materials development between sessions.
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We track time transparently so you always know where you stand.
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Hours can roll over week-to-week within the same month, but they do not roll over between months, which encourages steady engagement.
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If you need more time in a given month, additional hours are available and simply added on.
What This Is (and Is Not)
This work is:
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Educational, relational, and systems-focused
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Geared toward understanding patterns and changing structures, not blaming individuals
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Designed to support neurodivergent and neurotypical family members alike
This work is not:
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Therapy or medical treatment
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ABA or behavior reduction services
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A crisis line or emergency response service
If your family has therapists, psychiatrists, or other professionals involved, we are happy to coordinate and collaborate with them if you wish.
Ready to Talk About What Fits?
Every family is different, and sometimes the right tier becomes clear only after a conversation.
In that conversation, we’ll:
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get a snapshot of what’s happening in your family
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clarify what you hope will change
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decide together which level of support makes the most sense to start with
No pressure, no hard sell—just a chance to see whether this is a good fit.
Our Methodology
Research-Informed, Practice-Tested
We draw on emergence theory, neural pluralism, and systems research, then translate those ideas into simple tools. Our work is grounded in evidence but always tested against real conditions, so recommendations are both insightful and usable.
Real-World Iteration
We treat every intervention as a hypothesis. By trying approaches in real situations and watching what emerges, we refine methods in partnership with you—strengthening what helps, dropping what doesn’t, and avoiding brittle, one-shot solutions.
Context-Specific Design
No two systems have the same history, constraints, or neurocognitive mix. We adapt our methodology to your particular context so that the changes you make are truly yours and fit the people who have to live with them.
Ongoing Stewardship
Change is a process, not an event. We provide steady support as your system experiments, adjusts, and settles into new patterns—helping you maintain momentum without overloading people or losing sight of what matters.
Start Your Next Cycle of Change with Us
Discover how Congleton Consulting can help your family, organization, or community move from stuck patterns to more coherent, sustainable ways of working and living. Our emergence-based approach combines clear analysis with gentle, experiment-driven practice to support real change over time. Reach out to schedule a conversation and explore what a calmer, clearer, more connected system could look like for you.